Core Values That Keep You,
YOU
4 Guiding Steps To Bring Forth Solutions That Stems From Yourself Without Being Blindly Influenced By Others (Yes, That Includes Me).
We’re all pulled left and right with countless daily choices and possibilities.
If you manage it well, you’ll be able to keep an eye out for what works for other people while being picky enough to do things that will make the most impact and turn these solutions into what will work for you.
This blog is never about how you should live like me but about seeing what might be ahead and using my trial-and-error journey as an honest example to get your gears moving so you can build your one-of-a-kind career.
Long story short. Be you.
1. Turn Your Emotions into Solutions
Our emotions could easily overpower us, and we often brush off our emotions as a part of our adult rite of passage until they spill out at the most inconvenient time. Instead of seeing our emotions as a nuisance and a sign of weakness, why not use this natural bodily response as a self-guiding tool?
Addressing your emotions calms and clears your mind to give you direction on what you really need to learn and do next.
2. Open to New Ideas and Challenges
When times are changing rapidly, and we’re reaching higher goals, inevitably, the tools and strategies that used to work for us in the past need to be re-polished or replaced. It’s exhausting to only look to ourselves for better answers because our time, energy, and creative spirits are limited. From the people we see in our daily lives to the thought-provoking figures in the past, our challenges have probably already been experimented on, and solutions figured out.
Open yourself to new ideas and challenges to keep your systems updated, flexible, and ready for future opportunities.
3. Reshape Answers into What Works For You
The most mentioned core value in this blog, and for good reason. When we’re just starting out, especially when trying to achieve goals that are more challenging than what we’ve dealt with before, we are more likely to let other people’s opinions, ways of living, etc., overpower our own. There’s a fine line between using other people’s advice for your own benefit and subconsciously contorting yourself to live like other people (including me) that may deviate from your original goal.
Reshaping what you know lets you live your life better, the way you want, at your own pace. Additional reasons why this is important.
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3. Reshape Answers into What Works For You
The most mentioned core value in this blog, and for good reason. When we’re just starting out, especially when trying to achieve goals that are more challenging than what we’ve dealt with before, we are more likely to let other people’s opinions, ways of living, etc., overpower our own. There’s a fine line between using other people’s advice for your own benefit and subconsciously contorting yourself to live like other people (including me) that may deviate from your original goal.
Reshaping what you know lets you live your life better, the way you want, at your own pace. Additional reasons why this is important.
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4. Accept Who you are with open arms
Let’s be honest. Even if we achieve our wildest dreams or have completed our 100th streak on a good habit, we will never be perfect.
The reason why we try so hard is because we can have better problems than what we had before and have the ability to choose the problems we prefer to have.
Suppose we’ll only love ourselves when we get this or that. This mindset will put us in a tragic fate of trying to fill a never-ending gap for perfection and continuously abandoning our self-identity.
So why not appreciate our imperfections so there is room for us to grow and treat every small victory as extra credit, not as desperate attempts to fix the human in us?
Accepting who you are with open arms lets you be patient with your progress and still be yourself no matter whom you look up to.
“Because when you give better fucks, you get better problems. And when you get better problems, you get a better life.”
4. Accept Who you are with open arms
Let’s be honest. Even if we achieve our wildest dreams or have completed our 100th streak on a good habit, we will never be perfect.
The reason why we try so hard is because we can have better problems than what we had before and have the ability to choose the problems we prefer to have.
Suppose we’ll only love ourselves when we get this or that. This mindset will put us in a tragic fate of trying to fill a never-ending gap for perfection and continuously abandoning our self-identity.
So why not appreciate our imperfections so there is room for us to grow and treat every small victory as extra credit, not as desperate attempts to fix the human in us?
Accepting who you are with open arms lets you be patient with your progress and still be yourself no matter whom you look up to.
“Because when you give better fucks, you get better problems. And when you get better problems, you get a better life.”